A very good post @humanearl, once I understand from the words you write it has a very deep meaning. That's what life says, sometimes it does not happen the way we want it to be. But all that is destiny, and we can only try to get better and keep trying to be successful. Because to be successful it takes struggle, hard work, and survive despite having many challenges. The important thing is we stay focused on one of our goals.
Like me who just joined in steemit, have no friends and every article I post does not have a vote. Therefore, I keep trying to find friends. Because I believe if there is a will there is a way. I will keep trying to be active in steemit, even though people do not want to be friends with me. But I keep my spirit and will not give up. Because the point is, to succeed it takes a very big struggle. Thanks for sharing @humanearl.
You have the right mindset. Just don't give up and stay active in the comment sections of other posts. You have much value to give the world