That question in fact, is asked by millions of people around the world.

Are we born with that attribute?

Many people if born with this attribute, but that does not mean that anyone can learn to be nice and sociable, we all have skills that if we start to develop we can achieve what we so desire.

“Sympathy, Love, Fortune... We all have these qualities but still tend to not use them”
Anne Frank

As a result of learning and working on it, we will be able to turn our lives around. This topic is interesting, because as we contribute to help more people we will be happier and we will achieve, pleasant individuals with a better quality of life since having these skills we have a better health and better welfare in society. Our thoughts are different and yet we can all live together, respecting the opinions of others and sharing different points of view

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Steps to follow to achieve these skills

Starting with ourselves
Telling lived experiences
Hold meetings where we share interesting and in-depth dialogues on common themes
Perform physical activities where they put into practice the skills of each of us
Not exclude anyone for not thinking the same
Listen carefully when a person is talking about a topic
Inspire confidence to create security
Take the initiative and put a topic on the table
Stay informed, to be able to address many themes
Finally patience and perseverance with this is achieved all

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I believe these are tools that cost nothing, but they help a lot with just putting them into practice, to be a better society full of happy and optimistic people.

In order to help other people we have to start examining ourselves first, because sometimes we preach about what we lack. This is very important because if I can do it, you can also, and so we start with one and end up being millions

Don't you think so?