In traditional Chinese culture, praising a woman generally from four aspects: 德(de)which means morality,a woman should be tolerance and full of love;容(rong) which means the appearance and makeup, the make-up should be appropriate, not too much;言(yan)which means speech and deportment,do not say any vulgar words;工(gong) which means working ability . In ancient China, these aspects were even used to restrict women's behavior. After the 21st century, although women are no longer bound by these rules, these four aspects are still the basis for evaluating one person. And it's the same for men.
Praise a woman (or a person) is certainly multifaceted, somebody’s appearance or makeup could only be used to evaluate a person's external characteristics. Sometims we should give consideration to emotions, or because of the need for politeness, when we meet a person compliments could narrow the distance between us. When meet a person whose appearance is ordinary, maybe you would say she looks outstanding, but they would say you are lying to her; when someone’s makeup technology is obviously ordinary, you think she dressed up well, these apparently false accolades only make people hate you.
So, to praise someone whose appearance has some defects, we can praise her with her makeup; when someone’s make-up is terrible, we can praise her with her good personality or ability. And so on.
But in these four aspects, morality is undoubtedly the most important. In every country, this is regarded as the most important factor in the evaluation of a person. Who would like a man who looks good and actually behaves badly? Personal morality related to social, work, life, all aspects of learning, The person who have bad characters m ay achieve some success, but doubtly he will be very lonely, after all excellent quality can not be bought.
其实我觉得第一印象,也就是容是比较重要的哈~
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