Listen to that ying faye wong sing "time", feel that although the time will pass, but still will stay in our hands, how to correctly to the time is everyone to make a reply.The heroine, played by fan bingbing, replaces the 32 on the cake with 23 at her birthday party.It is not difficult to understand that almost everyone is afraid of being old.
It is difficult for us in adolescence to have a deep understanding of aging because it has not yet happened to us.But when we pay attention to the parents gradually aging face, and the grandfather's temples greying appearance, we can also perceive that aging to death is a heavy topic that people should bear all their lives.
When you're young, it seems heavy to talk about how to get through aging.But it is no longer necessary to discuss how to get through it when we are old.
I used to wonder why people go through aging and die instead of staying young and dying.Now the answer is clear.The creator deliberately arranged the experience of aging to death in order to balance human life.People in the growth, whether deliberately or unintentionally will increase the wisdom and harvest life experience.All these gains are at the expense of youth.How can you have youth and wisdom at the same time?Youth capital of life is youth.He can use his youth to discuss passion and love and show his most lively and beautiful self in public.With youth in the winery coffee shop consumption of life.In the same way, youth will bring destruction, let the youth live nothingness.So youth is gradually deprived of youth, youth gradually aging.Old people have a truth that young people don't have. They have experienced love and hate.The good virtues that youth does not possess will be gradually acquired at the expense of youth.I think that's the balance of life.
Most people grow up with the loss of freshness, and thus feel that life is boring.A three-year-old girl will be happy to get a doll.Eighteen year old girls will be happy to get a bunch of roses.Thus it can be seen that the feeling of happiness itself does not disappear in the human heart, but the things that cause people to feel happy have shifted.Just like a child, it is difficult to understand why the elderly love drama and find it boring.The old man, on the other hand, was immersed in the drama.It is not that the young man has lost pleasure, but that he has not yet found what makes him happy.Young people, therefore, might as well keep quiet and think, where shall I go next?What do I love?What intellectual interest in life should I cultivate?Only when young people have a preliminary prediction of the road they have not taken can they try their best to avoid feeling empty and boring in the process of aging.
Youth should avoid recalling the past as much as possible, and should not forget it completely.Remembering the past can blind one eye. Forgetting the past can blind both eyes.Memory is a great part of the trouble which afflicts youth.Memories of people you loved and hated, your unforgettable experiences, your appearance is not old, and all these are broken in the past time.The pain of youth is in this ungrasped beauty.As time goes by, we appreciate the past more.Old people don't have much time for the rest of their lives.So.The spirit of the elderly can not be placed in the future, can only open the prologue of memory, from birth to death, page by page taste the past experience, summed up their life.If there is a blank memory in his life, he will be anxious to regret.The blind eye, like blindness, is the greatest fear before the end of life.
Russell said, "a human being should be like a river.Small at first, clamped between the Banks and constantly washing the Banks against the boulders, the passion gushing down, the Banks quietly fading, the river gradually widened, and finally no pain into the sea.Shed the shore, gradually broad process can be understood, if a person has a lot of friends, will not be sad because someone left betrayal.If a person has many interests, he will not be bored because of the loss of some pleasure in life.A person with a lot of knowledge and skills will not be anxious because of temporary unemployment.Thus, the greater the breadth of one's life, the more attention one pays to the process of living, and the less painful it is to grow old, so that, like a river, it merges painlessly into the sea.The expansion of life depends on the expansion of people's view of the world.Only when we enrich our view of the world can we deepen our understanding of the world.Remember to integrate yourself into all aspects of your life and expand it.Looking at the world from a single perspective can tie people to a narrow bank.Here's a simple way to enrich your view of the world: read.Reading a book written by a person gives you a perspective on the world.When you read a lot of books, you gain multiple perspectives that naturally integrate into a unique view of the world.In so doing, help you forget about aging and make life more three-dimensional by expanding the breadth of your life.
What people fear about aging is loneliness and ill health.Loneliness is the difference between children.The children have their own lives and are too busy with their careers to visit their aging parents.Being ill is not only a physical torture, but also a heavy burden for raising children. Therefore, when we are young, we might as well exercise regularly to maintain healthy habits.You reduce the likelihood of getting sick in old age.Work hard when you are young and save a lot of money for your old age, thus reducing the financial burden of child support.When we have children, we spend more time with them and cultivate a natural and harmonious relationship with them, so that our children will have a deeper affection for us, raise the temperature of the family, make the relationship between family members more harmonious, and sometimes even feel that aging is worth it.
The most direct way people deal with aging is to wear makeup.Although this can disguise the appearance of aging, is understandable.In addition to the physical appearance of the makeup, should also have the makeup of life.The makeup of life.With truth, kindness, beauty, love, compassion and all the most glorious human qualities to decorate themselves.Appearance of the makeup ultimately resist but the destruction of time.But the makeup of life, but beyond time.It's never too late to look for the grace of your character. It's never too late to look for the grace of your character.It is often said that a good person has a good look, and that a person who is beautiful at heart will reflect it particularly in their appearance.When people spend a lot of time making up, they cannot forget that their heart is still waiting for decoration.
In addition to his own inherent life, there is also a second life.This second life, can be their own pursuit, life struggle for the cause, value, dream and so on.Musicians see music as their life.A painter regards his work of art as his life.Writers regard words as their life.When she was 100, she still published books.Qi baishi continued to paint all day when he was ill in his old age.They have forgotten the age of their first life, do not care how old the first life.Instead, focus your energy and passion on developing your second life.The value of the second life is often more than the first, someone joked: "xu zhimo died early, good.What remains in the eyes of the world is the romantic genius and his romantic poetry. No one knows what he looked like in his old age."As a result, people tend to remember your second life, not your first.In this way, when we experience aging, there is no need to cover up the appearance of aging, and there is no need to worry about aging, but more think about how to give their second life more meaning, sing a song of aging.
Old age, inevitable death, will come.As long as we can manage aging with the right attitude of optimism.Before the end of life to recall this life: "this life sweet, bitter, spicy, life has experienced all kinds, there is no regret.