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Disappointment is a reaction to a mismatch between hope, desire and reality. Disappointment can be caused by many factors, starting from things that seem very ordinary, becoming big and finally torturing feelings.
Our emotions may be negative at first. We may feel angry, sad, frustrated, and discouraged. Let yourself really experience this emotion, but remind yourself that emotions are only temporary. Try not to analyze our thoughts. Just let the emotion appear by itself and realize silently inside our head. We must develop strategies to deal with the immediate effects of disappointment.
In disappointments that have a direct impact, it is very important to feel our emotions. When dealing with all difficulties in life, it is very important to know our emotional reactions even if it feels painful or difficult. Even when our emotions are unpleasant because they are disappointed, it is very important to let ourselves feel them.
The best way to deal with disappointment is to be kind to yourself.
Many people have a tendency to be hard on themselves when faced with disappointment. It's important to be nice after experiencing rejection. Try to withdraw from blame and self-hatred.
In the face of the effects of disappointment, it is very important not to relate to self-degrading thoughts. Try to be nice to yourself. We must be able to see a situation objectively and see how we can change and improve ourselves.
Finally, by facing disappointment is to bury our emotions deeply after experiencing disappointment is very unhealthy. Look for friends or family who love us and share our feelings with them. Choose someone who is a good listener and not judgmental.
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