It can certainly be this way. I guess there is no way of finding out, but my guess is that we have free will up to a certain point. I believe that we die when we are supposed to and we meet the people we are supposed to, but i strongly believe that control is an illusion.
The more we hold tight, the more we loose the grip.
Give up the need to control and go with the flow.
I completely agree, not being in control does not have to be a bad thing at all and can often help you realize a lot about yourself.
Why on earth do you give up so easily?? LOL These secrets are known to men.
You can try to control the outcomes of what is happening to you all you want, it's not a matter of giving up. It's a matter of realizing that they way you react to what is happening to you is defines how your future Will be!
Well, you're wrong. Not even close to right lol
It's not about who is wrong and who is right, it's about accepting that what might be right for you is not right for me! But i guess I'm wrong about that to?