I got acquainted with the book of the famous writer, teacher self-development, self-improvement and interpersonal relations. Imagine: you come in for an interview, a new collective of or simply communicate with new acquaintances / friends and friends do not know how to behave, what to say and whether it is necessary to open your mouth ??? According to the Carnegie method (it is simple and understandable to all), you will not be afraid to communicate, meet new people and be like everyone. So, what to do?
Dale Carnegie identified 6 main PRINCIPLE:
- Smile more㋡. Scowl never work. Smile - free, but that it gets a lot. Of course you do not need to smile like a madman. A slight smile sends a signal of friendship / interest / flirting
Be interested in other people for sincere dialogue. Do not focus all attention on themselves and their problems. Learn more about your interlocutor - where working / learning what his hobbies, which likes beer - basic facts. if you are just getting started with a man you do not need to speak the type like this: "Hey, I was told to come to meet you." Better to say, "I noticed you're so friendly / interesting / funny"
Most say the name of the person with whom talking. People love when they remember and pronounce the name as often as possible - it gives a meaningful conversation and important meaning. Thus your message will reach goals more likely.
Listen more than talk. Talking with people to ask interesting questions, devote all your attention to them. Do not change any topic itself - it seems selfish, narcissistic and stupid.
If you like to talk, then talk about the interests of another person. Look for topics for discus, hold the view of your interlocutor. This will give the response - you have turned their attention and pay due attention to you. You will notice, begin to ask the question and then tell us about yourself.
Give to feel the other person to be important. Do not humiliate a man for his views / hobby / achievement by comparing their own - it would alienate everyone. Admire / rejoice / brag to others that met / know someone who has surprised / impressed you with their achievements. You will show itself only in the best light.
☞Important: Be sincere in communicating, smile, do not impose. And you will achieve your goals much faster. I wish you success!!!☜
P.S. As you have guessed I was a fan of The Big Bang Theory😍
Great post @natali22 !
A lot of my friends recomended me "The Big Bang Theory" and this was the last straw: