It's not because it sounds insolent, nor is it that I have a lot of money, because NO, I do not have it, but the poor should NOT have children.
The fact of bringing a life to the world, is a great responsibility. Food, clothes, diapers, studies, illnesses, fun, a good atmosphere, and love.
Many people only consider the last thing, "love", others do not even, only do it out of necessity, or "by mistake". But anyway. Love is not everything, and nobody lives alone of that.
Many say that those who do not want to have children are selfish. But is not it more selfish, to bring a child to live in misery?
Of course, they will talk about the exceptions. But it's just that, exceptions. It is not the norm, it is not normal, it is not common.
The neighborhoods are full of poor people, with many children. Large amount, poorly dressed, poorly nourished, badly educated and bitter. There is everything, but I speak of the common denominator. And from that common denominator, a large part grows and end up being the malandros that we ALL hate.
Maybe because I live in Venezuela, and all this has affected me more. In neighborhoods is where there are more government supporters. The same ones that are collectives and thugs.
Neither are all the neighborhoods, there are areas that are humble, but they are not ignorant. But this would be a C stratum.
My idea is to stratum D, those that really have nothing to offer.
That the children work from small. That they are on the street without supervision.
Those who do not like children, but have them, do not even know why. Some to tie men, others to help them at work (even when they do not keep themselves).
Having a child is a great responsibility, and they must understand that they are for life. That you must take charge. They are yours and it is your problem, of no one else. What they live from childhood will affect them for life.
If they do not have good nutrition they will not develop properly.
If they do not have a good education, they will be at a disadvantage with the rest.
If they do not have clothes, they will feel bad.
If they do not have toys, they will look for other ways to have fun.
And I have nothing against the poor, I repeat, I do not have money. Nor am I in a condition to have children, and therefore I DO NOT have them, nor will I have them until the time is right.
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