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We chose our own happiness. When you put Your happiness on people or on things, then you are subjecting yourself to a mental and emotional breakdown and slavery.. So, I want to be sharing with us the simple ways to stay happy.. These tips have experimented by me, I'm writing this post based on my experience so far..
BE YOURSELF
I don't know about other people but for me, it is soo exhausting to be someone else. I remember a time in high school when I wanted to Fit in with some cool girls, I wanted to be in their clique, I felt like I was going to have a heart attack, like seriosly It was mentally stressful to bury myself and be like them. I don't think our friendship lasted a week cause I went back to being myself.. Truth is, I ended up being the cool girl everyone wanted to hang out with.. You are more confident when you are yourself and that confidence attracts people to you.. Just be yourself, the world will adjust..
DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE
No one really owe you anything.. They don't owe you love, money or friendship, people give that to you willingly. When you start expecting much from people, they will disappoint you. You need to love yourself enough, other people's love will just be extra. But if you don't love yourself enough, you will rob yourself off your happiness by constantly forcing yourself on people. Same with money or any other thing, build your own brand, anything you get from people is just extra pie. Work on yourself so that you will be able to give yourself that which you expect from people, that way you will live peacefully.
PEOPLE CAN BE ANYTHING
The earlier you realize that people change and anyone is capable of anything, the happier you'll be. Don't go around beating your chest and saying, Oh I know Tim, he will never do anything to hurt me.. Just know that anyone can hurt you, anyone can do anything when you least expect it. So don't put your faith in people, you will be disappointed.
CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
Above all, happiness is a choice. Imagine putting your happiness money on wealth and it suddenly disappears or putting it on your loved ones and they break your heart.. Life is as hard as it can be and the least you can do is to choose to be happy every second of the day. Besides no problem is solved with sadness, it only makes one look old and sick. Happiness helps our health too. So choose happiness, it makes life easier..
Each day when you are faced with things that brings sadness, make a conscious decision to be happy, it's really not easy but the universe will adjust sooner or later..
I hope this is helpful.. Thanks for reading..
It's theone and only @nmalove
It is interesting what you say because sometimes we put our happiness below that of others is to say that others should be happy first than us to get some satisfaction for that, to what I think we should make us happy first for then offer that feeling to others
Your statement that people can be anything is so true but not believed by most people. People are capable of almost anything. I believe this is because the human mind is a rationalization machine. People want what they want and will make up a rational after the fact as to why they deserve whatever. I have mentored a lot of young people and one thing I impress upon them is when somebody shows you who they really are, BELIEVE THEM!
Exactly! Believe them and move on..
Yeah, thank you
Confirmed!
The pursuit of happiness is real. Happines cannot be bought or sold. It is the position and state of mindset..ATTITUDE.
Yea.. It's a conscious decision
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This is what I really need at the moment... Thanks friend...