Because I always see that little bit of good in people they're trying to stash away while hopelessly cornered into their own narratives, while also considering the fact they have onlookers requiring a good impression as well and must meet those demands. I know it's going to be tough and delicate but I still try.
I have managed to talk people down from that ledge before. I'm not into punishment. I'm into helping. And yes, it backfires. And yes, I end up looking like the asshole.
I've seen you in tight spots. That last time we spoke. I was cooling you down. You needed it.
Oh yeah man, I've been in some spots, it happens and I think it's best to confront it, admit it, that's the way forward. Some prefer to hide from their problems, even if their problem is themselves.