The Solution Is Very Simple ... Change Your Way of Thinking Only!

Since childhood we have been accustomed to hearing the words "nothing is impossible". Is this phrase fictional or real? Can a person accomplish what he wants?. The study of the mental and psychological makeup of human indicates that a person is capable of achieving his goals as long as he sticks to his desired goal, continues his efforts, ignores the hiccups he faces and sees every hiccup as a source of strength for a better future. As Thomas Addison did. After he failed more than a thousand times, he invented the lamp we use these days to illuminate our homes and streets.

Success in life and realization of dreams is not a monopoly of anyone. But it is the result of continued efforts to achieve it. The person who refuses to leave this world without registering his name in the memory of the world, usually follows a path that others consider it unwise. Because the thinking power of those who criticize your positions is limited. And they are the owners of laziness, that their intellectual distance is very limited. In his lifetime, he can not see a way out of the problems he faces.That because he talks to himself that he is weak and does not have the strength to deal with the crises surrounding him.

In our world most people are not ready to use the capabilities of their minds and the power of their brains to escape the problems that surround them from every side. It is enough to change your life in case you want to change your mind. This is an intellectual revolution, calls on you to change your mind completely. So it is the only way to save you from the problems that surround you.

Every one of us wants change, happiness and well-being in life. But how many of us are prepared to do what those who created new history in this world and their supporters remember them till this day. You have to move and do your job and tasks assigned to you. You can not be someone else, because you were created with a special temperament, special skill and a unique mindset. You can use those special ingredients to achieve your goals and reach what you want to reach.

A few days ago my friend called me and I know him since I was child. He began to speak in the same way, cursing his life and past. "My life has not changed, I will not have a better life, this is my case and since my childhood, I am like that, so what shall I do?" he said . He continued saying that he had reached this painful situation because of others and that he is innocent of this situation. If it had not happened to him, he would have come to what he wanted to be like others.

I listened to his words and complaints as I had been accustomed to them for years. But this time I decided to make a decisive decision to change his life. So I said to him, brother, I hope to ask you some important questions in case you are serious and ready to hear my words. We finally decided to continue talking. I asked him the first question: bro! how many years have you been complaining about your life? Do you remember when I met you a few years ago in the Istanbul and I was on a visit to meet you after long time we don't see each other? as I remember you were complaining about your past and, family and all the incidents that brought things on your situation at that time. Now you repeating the same words that the hearer hates to hear and makes him away from you, what happened after these past years where you spent time on blaming others and thinking about the past, few days that will not return back!

What is the meaning of this? your situation has become worse than ever before? Think about the original cause of this painful situation that makes you hate life? life is yours! if you like it, likes you... We finished our words after agreeing on something important, that to stop thinking about past days and blame others, concentrating on positive things only and to start his real life.Now I am just waiting...

Finally, you, with this psychological treatment and negative thinking, force the well-being, good happiness, joy and pleasure to be far from your life, although it is within your hands and it loves you very much. Be yourself, you were created with a special temperament, special skill and a unique mentality. Be yourself! you are wonderful!

By: ~~A. Alfutaih~~