Although we often ashamed to admit it, the truth is that sometimes the success of others bother us, because it makes us feel inferior or less valuable . However , the success of others is often the sting we need to improve.
I just 3 weeks testing this platform , in that short time I have seen and read many post interesting , some come to be on the first page of trending topics, but I have also seen and read many topics about how unfair it is payments for other.
THINK ABOUT IT!...
The classmate who takes better grades , brother or sister who always seems to do everything right , the work colleague seemingly effortless getting brilliant results and not take to get a promotion. We've all ever felt a twinge of envy at the success of others. Our own insecurity and our habit of comparing ourselves with others are some of the causes behind this sentiment . However, the success of others can just play in our favor.
1: Often seen as someone close to get something with effort encourages us to tell us that we can also achieve what we want. The success of others becomes the best example that our dreams are not impossible and we also serves to encourage us to work for it.
2: Celebrate the successes of others, especially if they are people you care about , friends, family , it helps you feel more connected to them and to strengthen relations . A positive spiral that will turn them rejoice over your achievements and encourage you to achieve.
3: Rejoice in the successes of others also helps you stop comparing yourself with others. Each person is different and the fact that a person has done well in a certain area does not mean that don´t have problems or doubts. Others think that everything goes well or find it easier than us puts us in a situation of victims that prevents us believe in our own possibilities.
So , do not give up, nor bothered by the good performance of others , be happy for her and always recognizes a
that's right @oecp85, I want to add: "if you want to get? learn to give!"
exactly my friend.