On Life : The Seven Stages Of Dominion

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There have always been stages in every facet in Life from your biological growth till growth in your business or any other thing you put your mind to do

There are basic principles in life that apply in every facet of our stay here on earth and just like I said in one of my previous posts. Pattern recognition is one of the greatest skill you can acquire in Life. It will enable you predict the future while others are wondering what's coming

A core example is what is currently going on in the Blockchain world. Anyone who have has a nice dose of pattern recognition will know that It is just a replay of what went down in the Internet revolutuion of the closing years of the last Century

Enough said, with that let me move on to something that will be beneficial to you. It is called the Seven stages of Dominion when it comes to acquring a skills that help you grow any venture, and by the time you are done with this post you will know where you are and the actions you need to take

Devotion

At this stage you are still confused, you don't really know what you want or what you are meant to do. So you devote time to a lot of soul searching. You read books that you will motivate you to break out from this period of confusion. Some people stay long at this stage due to the fact that they lack self awareness. So what is self awareness you may ask ?

Self Awareness is knowing the difference between who you are and who you wish you were

Some many people spend much time in the Rut because they want to shape themselves into what they can never be. You see someone who is skilled at baking but believes that music is the way for him/her to go


Deliverance

This is another vital stage that is as Important as the first. At this stage you would have developed the right dose of self awareness to know what you are good at and know that there are some things you can never do well in Life

Now let me chip in something for those who believe that the Human mind can achieve anything it sets in mind to do. While this is true, there are still some shortcomings that you will encounter all through your Life if you stick to the wrong thing. You may get good at it, but you will be an average player in that field for the rest of your Life

It is like Soccer , any one can train and play football, but not everyone will get to the Level of Christiano Ronaldo or Lionel Messi

It is this deliverance stage that will help you clear anything that will make self doubt cripple you in the future


Discovery

At the deliverance stage you know what you are meant to do, at the discovey stage you find out how to do it. You research and find out ways people who are ahead of you have done it

Discovery helps you to map out the path you need to take to world domination


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Development

This is the stage which I feel should be in a constant loop. Development in my opinion is a lifetime project. It is not something we should pass but something that we should always revisit

The stage of development is when you go through education of what you need to excel in what you have mapped out to do. It is a stage of learning and Mentorship

It is a stage where you ask a lot of questions about how you will go about building your dream


Deployment

This is the stage of work . And this is usually the longest stage, this is where you start deploying all that you have learnt in the previous stage

Deployment is what will Introduce you to the world and let them know who you are and what you have to offer

This is the stage where people who got into the wrong field burnout because of challenges, but if you are in the right field, this is where you will shine and it is what will push you to the next stage

Deployment will look like a chore when you are doing what you are not built for, but if you love what you do, you will never have to work a day in your life


Dominion

This is the stage at which you become very good at what you do. Dominion is the stage of prominence wne everyone knows your name

It is also one of the stages where pride can destroy all that you have built. I say this because when most people achieve prominence they see no need for the development , they feel that they have overcome all

The truth is that deployment will bring you dominion, but development will keep you there. You have to keep working on yourself to stay in sync with the changing times

Those who fail to do this in the stage of dominion will never rach the last stage which I believe is a vital as this


Death

Now when I say death, I don't mean physical death, I am talking about self abandonment. This is the stgage where you no longe live for yourself, but for others

No matter how dominant you are in any field you still hav to know that you are a servant there. I see people who used to carry others along totally abandon them when they feel that they have come to dominion

They believe that they have reached a new class where they no longer have to associate with the little guys

Gary Vaynerchuk is my biggest Mentor when it comes to building a personal an business brand online. He has built two businesses worth millions of dollars and he was an early Investor in Uber,Twitter, Facebook and a whole bunch of companies, but he still takes out time to reply comments on his social media posts and if you DM him with a genuine request he will attend to you, no matter who you or where you come from

Death in anywhere you find yourself is vital if you will want to build a legacy. If you don't reach this stage people may praise you in your front, but they will always despise you

It is just like a block of Ice, when you take it from the freezer it does not turn to water Immediately but with time it slowly melts completely

They may be cheering you now, but they are dying to Boo

There are other ways to achieve death apart from comments but I believe you get a picture of what I am trying to paint here.

Humility is Key


Thanks for reading, which of this stages are you currently in and is there anything you think I missed or any point you will like to shed, dominate my comment sections, I will like to hear from you

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Well said @ogochukwu.....
Looking at it holistically, you said it all. Allow me to chip in "optimism and positivity" at all times.
The way we condition our mind affect the expected result we aim to get. Being optimistic and speaking positivity really sets us on the right track.
Happy a wonderful afternoon

Thanks for the added wisdom @cyprainj

The 7D's...

Devotion
At this stage you are still confused, you don't really know what you want or what you are meant to do. So you devote time to a lot of soul searching. You read books that you will motivate you to break out from this period of confusion. Some people stay long at this stage due to the fact that they lack self awareness.

No doubt .. I guest, this is the preliminary stage that hold most people

Thanks for sharing

Very interesting read. I must say I cannot answer your question - parts of me are still in development - I guess that's ok since it is a lifelong process - but other parts are in deployment... I don't know about dominion... I'll think about it some more.

Thanks for reading @ladyrebecca

Development is lifelong to me

Discovery has to be the most critical of the seven. It takes years for some people to discover themselves hence they spend most of their lives wandering across intrests

Thats why self awareness is Important @molokwu

hello @ogochukwu, i love this piece. i think this was for someone like me now, who knows his path to dominion but still also at the discovery stage, knows he has to deploy himself but he is still has not developed himself...
thank you , as always, your content is queen, it has got me on checkmate.

@arinzechukwu

as always, your content is queen, it has got me on checkmate.

Thats a amazing way to out it Lol

Fascinating, and thanks for sharing! You got me reflecting on my own life and stages, which I appreciate.

I am glad that I was able to take you down memory lane @denisechips

The world in the grips...
Good my friend....

Hello @Ogochukwu

This is truly one of the best posts I have come across on steemit since I joined this platform.

Death

Now when I say death, I don't mean physical death, I am talking about self abandonment. This is the stage where you no longer live for yourself, but for others.

This last D is the most important to building our society/world, but unfortunately, it's the most lacking in the society today. Just a few are willing to be teachers or help others grow.

No matter how dominant you are in any field you still have to know that you are a servant there.

My father said something to us that, beyond success, there is yet another level, which is significanceThis is the point where one has gone beyond pursuing personal success, but pursuing the success of their successors. Only a few get to that point.

Like you rightly said — Humility is the key.

@Kayceesuave