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Ok so after searching online and asking a few friends, I realized that the answer to this question is a litte more complicated than I previously thought. Here's the dynamics:
Childhood:
Parenting:
Propaganda:
Its a shame that this has to be mentioned but most of the time, saying "daddy" or "mama" is a learned behavior that is promoted by Movies and Social Media..why? I'm pretty sure its purely economical as this tendency re-inforces the princess paradigm which is synonymous with a shit ton of shopping.
PERVERSION
Ok so men calling their girls "mama" during sex is pretty much non-existent but "baby girl" is much more prevelant which leads us even closer to the roots of all this: an incestual form of foreplay created by 70s porn. If you don't get this(how could you not??!!), type in "Ddlg kink" into the searchbar of reddit. Its weird and uncomfortable(especially on a work computer) and I regret going there but I digress. Incest is taboo....concensual domination is not...yet somehow people have combined these two items and coined it into a single phrase. Of course, women aren't calling their partners daddy because they're fantasizing about thier dads. They do it primarily as a form of submission and to appease their men who like the power associated with the title.
But why, if its primarily about power, are family roles associated with this foreplay? I think its because for both women and man, the father of the house hold traditionally has most of the power and this dynamic is the first hierarchy that people encounter in their lives.
On the other hand, sex is perverted. We all have kinks and things that turn us on for reasons we will never know. At our very core, both genders like to have complete control and a lack thereof in certain sexual situations. We are perverted little fucks who pretend like we aren't animals 90% of the time yet what we want the most is that 10% of wild inhibition.
Essentially, nature will find a way whether its "right" or "wrong". Ethics don't matter to nature and we forget that. Animals rape each other and eat their children all the time and we share copious amounts of DNA with all of them. So as long as we aren't doing the latter, I think its perfectly fine for a couple to exchange pet names like daddy and baby girl.
I don't attract the type of girl who'd call me daddy either. And it would feel weird if she did. It seems weird when my wife calls me dude... but that's a different thing. It's like when your partner high 5's you, it's just not husband/ wife like.
You touched on some disturbing topics but addressed them well without making this post NSFW. Well done you!
Yea I have to wonder about the people it doesn't feel weird to even though I already know they're usually undistinguished mainstream types. lol yea non-NSFW was key because 90% of my post are at work. Even if they weren't though, I hope that most people have enough sense to get the jist of what I was saying without having to elaborate any further.
even though i think morality is a evolutionary process i still have to agree with you here there's no problem in having fetishes they're fun. :P
Evolution being moral is a great argument to have. Natural Selection doesn't pick sides yet the no-man-left behind hive mind mentality that humans and many animals share seems counterproductive to the continuation of the species. Its complicated, no doubt.
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STOPInteresting post. I am not a fan of the daddy "thing" lol although my husband is the daddy to my children, I only call him daddy when I'm talking about him to our 4 year old. I had a dad that was there for me my whole life.. my mom was actually the one to walk out but I don't think I've called him daddy since before kindergarten LOL
To each his own - as long as no one is getting hurt and no children are being harmed but definitely not my cup of tea.. I think it's a bit creepy lol
Your temperment towards the phrase matches the concious response. As I'm sure you know, most people who use it never think about the connotation of the word. I also feel weird saying "baby girl" to a grown ass woman and never used it. But I'm like you, if people get pleasure from it then more power to em. I just doubt they're thinking about why the phrase is what it is and how it came about.
Yeah, I agree. Maybe more people should be questioning why we use these words and what the message really is.. words are pretty powerful - but at least daddy, or baby girl or whatever isn't derogatory or disrespectful lol but that's a whole different conversation in itself. Anyways, great post, I really liked it.
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