At the end of the day, males will always be at a disadvantage when it comes to these topics because females are simply the more beautiful gender, visually speaking.
They can make everything work for them fashion wise some way or the other while man kinda have to work for these things to work.
Don't underestimate your soul ...it's the most beautiful of all! Men's body too have its own intrinsic beauty and charm.
P.S.:
Sorry, I missed upvoting your comment for this bounty though I wanted to.
It's true, us men do have a certain charm going for us as well.
Not a problem, all good.