In truth, your Dating Profile is the single most important piece of writing you will ever do when it comes to attracting other singles.
Your Online Dating Profile is your Internet Marketing Brochure – and the Home Page for all of your online dating matches. It’s your advertisement for the product that is YOU.
An effectively written Dating Profile can make the difference between your meeting ho-hum matches and those who light you up like the Christmas tree at the Rockefeller Center in New York.
A well-written Dating Profile can invite the Love of Your Life to introduce him or herself to you – and change the course of history in your life.
An incredibly well-written Online Dating Profile can land you a date with a Millionaire.
Or the incredibly beautiful Woman-Of-Your-Dreams.
Design your Dating Profile with pizzazz and watch the world come lining up to greet you.
Describe yourself poetically – and with romance on your tongue and on your lips – and you will speak to the Souls of singles worldwide.
But design your Dating Profile like most people’s are designed – with little thought and hardly any creativity – and your Online Dating Experience will land like a lead balloon in the wilderness… with a big THUD that no one will ever hear.
Write an inspired Online Dating Profile and infuse it with elegance and grace… and I guarantee you that your response rates will skyrocket to the moon.
Wax poetically in your Dating Profile – create an attractive work with vitality dripping from every sentence and paragraph – and exciting men and women will come a courting.
Give your Online Dating Profile style and glamour and you will immediately get points for the finesse you didn’t know you had.
And so now you may be wondering, “How can I create such a masterpiece?”
Here are some pointers to get you started.
1. First, use the space you’re given to describe yourself in detail. Don’t just write a short summary of your interests (even a third grader can do that) but rather talk about the things that warm your heart and touch your soul.
2. Describe your favorite childhood memories; the place you grew up and why you still come back to visit even after all of these years have gone by; the picturesque countryside where you spend weekends in a country cottage; the famous novels you grew up with that you still savor on a winter afternoon in front of the fireplace. In other words, paint a word picture that shows off some creativity.
3. Create, in your dating profile, a real personality. Study the writing of Hemmingway, D.H. Lawrence, Mark Twain, John Steinbeck, Leo Tolstoy, or anyone whose work inspired you when you were a kid.
4. Get yourself fired up with enthusiasm before you sit down to write your Dating Profile. Understand it for what it really is… a living reflection of your character and personality; a summary of your life and inner world; a portrait of you as a romantic human being – and most of all, an invitation to a stranger who may enter your world and become a part of it.
Yes indeed, your Dating Profile is a living biography of your life – and your potential as a romantic partner and future Soulmate. So write as if your happiness depends upon it.
In many ways, it does.