You're spot on.
It kind of is an excuse. It's a tricky one. Our imagination does decline, men are far more visual than women, and now with the TV and the internet, gaming and god knows what else there's little left for the imagination. Books perhaps?
It's hard, I've had some women say "it's not up to us to educate our partners, they should know it's wrong, or do it themselves" - but then I say, how are you going to help someone that's done something without any resistence since they were a child. They aren't going to think it's wrong, and they'll continue to do it. All you can do is educate and raise awareness
Agreed, it is such an emotional disappointment for us. It is hard to understand anthers perception. At least you were open to change and open about sometimes falling short. It takes time to break as it took time to get hooked.
Exactly! Thanks for reading this though, the more I can reach, the better :)
You are welcome as usual I look forward to your next piece.