Moving Forward

in #life7 years ago

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As we journey through our lives, do we grow stronger from the adversity or get stuck in our own dilemmas? Sometimes it is hard to move past our own faults and failures, or even the challenges we have no control over. When life has thrown a curve ball at you, you have 2 choices: one you can sit back and let it consume you or you learn from it and grow. People get caught up in themselves when something drastic happens they don't have the ability to use it as a lesson. We tend to fall into our own self pity, no direction to follow. My last 12 months have been the hardest time of my life and I got caught up in this circle. I finally found myself not moving forward because I was dwelling on the negatives forcing my decisions. I finally woke up and realized I am a better person than I have portrayed. My children need to be able to see a man that has the ability to overcome obstacles and move past them. I have a lot to learn in this life about myself and growing from adversity. Being able to use my positive energy to overcome the challenges that I have faced which I will post soon, I have shown the strengths to my boys that a human can take control of a situation and move past it use as a growing experience
and be able to bring positive actions to help them grow. I believe in the power of positivity even when the cards are stacked against you.