Scripture says for us to labour to enter into His rest (Hebrews 4:11).
That means we're to do our best to get to that point where we stop struggling. I believe that the more we rest, the more we reign in life.
God doesn't want us stressed and worked up. He wants to see us living from a mental disposition of rest.
Jesus makes you completely well my brother! Keep playing it away.
"This is just the way it is" I heard that from the mouth of a believer when we discussed stress. I'm with you. Stress obviously wasn't in God's original plan. It's the curse.