Thanks for sharing lovely. Wow, yes it sounds like this could have been a huge contributor. A loss can really affect our physical body and it is important to give it time to heal.
Your ex-husband reminds me of an ex-boyfriend I had. He was extremely jealous and used to ban me from doing things. He didn't like me having male friends, or speaking to male strangers. Long story short, he cheated on me, and I have found it out from many sources. I by no means want to say that he was completely responsible for our relationship, and of course I was also sometimes difficult to deal with and I know I need to take responsibility for allowing him to ban me in the first place.
My experience is, we fear that someone will do something (e.g.: cheat on us) only if we have the tendency to do so ourselves. My current boyfriend is the loveliest man in the world and it would never cross his mind to every forbid me from meeting male friends, or making new male friends, hugging etc. When we start seeing each other as each others property - that is when things go down the drain. It is important to remember that we are each individuals and we need to be grateful for each others presence in our lives (rather than start treating each other like property).
Thanks for sharing part of your story!
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You are definitely right. I know I deserve a much better person and I know I will find him :) And I'm not sad at all, I'm happy that it happened so quickly, without having children, etc. So I can still travel, do whatever I want, I'm totally free.
I'm so glad to hear that you've found that person in your life!!! I'm so happy for you my Dear!!!
Millió puszi és ölelés!!