In today's society we, humans, are controlled by each other and the society no matter what we say. How we take notice of this is how we behave towards each other and what we expect of each other which makes us push ourselves to our limits and it makes us sick, in body and mind. This happens in every aspect. People judge you in how you look, behave, what education you have or if you are productive and so on.
Unfortunately, this takes its toll on you because it will break you from the inside. Many people who feel this, the must to live up to others standards and judgemental eyes develop mental unhealthiness which proceeds in different ways. Some develop eating disorders, others start with drugs, depression, suicidal and anxiety and other problems. These problems are only getting out from the closet because people decide to share it. The mental state of us these days isn’t healthy at all. which is not good at all. people judge you so hard on your appearance. nowadays it only matters how you look, what your education states and if you produce something.
Honestly, this does not matter. The way you look, if you have a good education or a job - it doesn’t matter. Much does not matter. If people understood this the society wouldn’t be the way it is and a lot more people would be healthier, in body and mind and the society wouldn’t have the control it has over us. If you understand this game that we’re in, you can start to turn the table to your own advance to be free and be healthy and don’t have the feeling that you must do certain things.
I only wish you love and happiness.
Love,
Sarfine