Excellent post. I'm in my 40s, and have been through a failed marriage and a failed long-term relationship after that. I haven't given up on love but I am at the point in my life where I am not in a rush to find it either. I am content with being by myself right now and let whatever happens happen.
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That's awesome! I mean not the failed marriage but that you are now content being alone. Isn't it a great place to be? Seems so silly me scrambling around searching for love, validation, sex, cuddles, anything to keep me from really being alone with my thoughts and having to work on myself thoroughly. :) hehe
That's right. We put everything into our relationships (sometimes) and still have the same flaws that cause those relationships to fail. Then we start the cycle over again.
Guess you're right i wanted validation that is as worth that ring he never gave in the end I close doors because I was getting remorseful. Good read indeed @lauralemons.
@sgtechservices I wish I can at the same but the feeling I'm not good enough for him does sting a bit considering it was a long term relationship that went crumbling. I really don't know how to go through it it's been four years now but it seems fresh still I wonder if I need to see a shrek or just take it as healing time still. Anyhow this is inspiring to know letting go is possible