2 steps to control your negative emotions

in #life6 years ago

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Negative emotions, similar to anger, envy or intensity, tend to wind wild, particularly instantly after they've been activated. In time, these sorts of feelings can develop like weeds, gradually moulding the brain to work on unfavourable emotions and commanding everyday life. Ever met a man who's reliably irate or unfriendly? They weren't conceived that way. In any case, they enabled certain feelings to mix inside them for so long that they wound up ingrained sentiments emerging very oftentimes.
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So how can we avoid operating on the wrong types of feelings follow my 2 steps to control your negative emotions

1 Your words and body movement

Envision your run of the mill day. You get up early in the day, valuing the daylight and the way that yesterday you vanquished 100 push-ups. When you were going to start taking a shot at your day by day objectives, you got some baffling news that shocked you. The fervour and assurance n you felt earlier are gone inside minutes.

The main enthusiastic response that takes after directly after is urgent in light of the fact that it frequently characterizes how well you can deal with the circumstance. Suppose you begin reviling or raising your voice, yet by doing that, you are supporting the passionate state you are in. There is a contrast between saying "I am extremely irate" or "I feel somewhat irritated." Less sensational words will keep you quieter.

The second thing which controls your emotions is your body development. On the off chance that you are moving quick, strolling starting with one corner of the room then onto the next, or feeling irritated, you are expanding the force of your negative enthusiastic state. Be that as it may, in the event that you back off and inhale, you will diminish your sabotaging enthusiastic state and have more space to just relax.

Here is a little exercise which can help you in upsetting circumstances. Locate a calm place, close your eyes and take three full breaths. Each time you breathe in say "in" and when you breathe out, say "out." That's it. These couple of moments of downtime will give you the chance to reflect and take better control existing apart from everything else

2 Replace your thoughts
Negative feelings tie us to repeating negative considerations, making cycles of out and out negative examples. At whatever point you are defined with a feeling which is influencing you to feel or think something terrible, compel it crazy and supplant it with an alternate idea. Envision the perfect goals for your concern playing out, think about someone who makes you happy or remembers an event that makes you smile.

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really beautiful article.

Thank you ☺

thanks for explaining how to deal with negative emotions, in very nice and simple way :)

Good brother nice post

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Thanks brother

Emotions are the most present, pressing and sometimes painful force in our lives. We are driven day by day by our emotions. We take chances because we’re excited for new prospects. We cry because we’ve been hurt and we make sacrifices because we love. Without a doubt, our emotions dictate our thoughts, intentions and actions with superior authority to our rational minds. But when we act on our emotions too quickly, or we act on the wrong kinds of emotions, we often make decisions that we later lament.

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