How are you? That should be one of the world's most frequently asked question..
You, me, friends, family, colleagues, acquaintances, and even strangers you meet for the first time would ask you that question, how are you?
I have often wondered if we really pay attention to those words when we use them or its just a cliche, a norm to ask people or its just something done out of courtesy.
The auto pilot question is always met with an auto pilot response of, "I am fine or I am okay" but are you really fine and okay?
Do you really want to know how the other person is doing when you ask the question or its just something we are all used to asking and responding to casually without a thought..
If we do care enough to know how people are doing then I think we've got to make sense and meaning out of that question every time we ask because people aren't really fine and okay like they'd respond to the question.
People have issues, cares, concern and a whole lot troubling them and just because they see your asking as something regular, they will always give the same auto pilot response.
You may not have the solution to the problem sincerely, but you may also do have some solution. Just mean the asking and make it better than you met the person.
Every time and next time you might want to ask the question, How are you? Carefully put some thought into it and go an extra mile to let the person you are asking know you really do mean it if indeed you care and want to be of help..
"We lose our humanity every time we stop caring for one another"
We can make a difference if we care...
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Rather than "How are you?" I like to use "How goes it?"
Not only is it more culturally universal;
French; cava
Spanish: como estas
German: wie geht's
It also relates to movement rather than stagnation. "How are you?" feels like asking what is your immediate state of mind. It's often responded to with "Alright" or something of the like because the immediate thought is "I don't know". "How's it going?" refers to the whole movement of emotion and sparks conversation.
So, how's it going for you today?
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