In this huge world, each and every person leads a different lifestyle, having different approach of seeing the world altogether. Their behaviour , way of interacting etc also differs. The problem lies in the people lacking in their confidence and it's major consequences are faced by the teenagers. Ya, TEENAGERS! Actually i was too having this lack of confidence.
In the teenage life, one has to deal with many ups and downs and moreover if the child is not confident, then it becomes more difficult for them to cope up with their on going changes in this fast paced world.
May be "confidence" sounds a very weird thing, but frankly saying, IT'S NOT!!! As i have told i was too not a confident guy before. Let me say one thing "it's never too late to do anything."
At times when i suffered with this lack of self-confidence, i had to struggle a lot in my daily life. I still remember due to this, i badly feared of speaking in public. Ya, i felt embarrassed by thinking that "what if i say something stupid or act foolish in front of people while speaking.". My main problem was that what people will think? But while talking to the close and known ones i would speak without any sort of hesitation. I know this thing happens with many of them out there,
I was not used to participate in any kind of debates, or anything related to "public speaking" in school. And now I REGRET.
Public interactions, group discussions, interacting with the teachers in schools, trying to start a conversation with a new friend or anything like these will always prove to be helpful.
BELIEVE ME! I am writing all these just because i have passed through all these things. Sometimes i just sit down and think "How can they be so much confident, WHY CAN'T I?".
To get rid of all these, the most essential thing here becomes is to start loving yourself. You all might think that what's the connection between loving yourself and being confident. But think, if you don't love yourself , if you don't love whatever you are doing, then you will always end up having a feeling of doubt on yourself and your ability which will indirectly lead to lower your confidence level. Doubt and confidence can never work together. First you believe that what you are doing is right and give your 100% in that, don't think whether the thing you are doing is going right or wrong.
Do a mistake, but have that learning attitude!
