Hello everyone! Where does love go? Why once this feeling can leave us forever, leave without looking back and never come back? What is it? Chemical reaction, which ends? Or the end of the effect, that occurs after taking drugs? I don't know, and I don't think, that anybody knows the answer. But the fact remains, one day, people suddenly realize, that they don't love each other. This habit, friendship, respect, attachment, but not love. Someone tries to hide it, pretend, that everything is still, but it is difficult. So who's to blame? Perhaps we are. We tend to dwell on the bad, not seeing good, too rationally, that you just feel is too focused on themselves and not on, who is close to us. We get used to it. And forget to be sincere, forget to please each other, we forget to value each other and appreciate every moment spent together. But for some reason never forget to mention the disadvantages, to be offended, to get angry and defend "their rights". It turns out, that we often kill ourselves love, that could live a very long time. And, can be, if love died, means she was not a real or it was not destined to live long? Maybe so, then you should simply be happy, that all has occurred so promptly, and in front of you a new feeling, which will definitely be present and for a lifetime "until death do us part". There is a theory, that love lives 3 years, writer Frederic Begbeder even wrote the same book. But sometimes we decide to believe in this theory or to try to build a love that will last much longer...
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I don't believe relationships most times are based on genuine love. You don't just fall in and out of Love like a lifeguard on an emergency rescue. Genuine love endures. That's why the love parents have for their children is everlasting irrespective of misgivings
I agree with you, parental love is true.
Love is the only emotion that we can't control...
We can't say I must love him/her or not...Its beyond our minds...Maybe love last 3 years or forever and we just don't know or how to master it..!
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I find myself guilty of the 3 year deadline. Most of my relationships fizzle out around this time, typically because I have moved on emotionally and my partner doesn't offer much anymore. Certainly something I'm exploring more and working on, because I'd love to have a love that lasts a lifetime, or close to it.
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