I hope that your son can forgive his father. Sometimes, when it all gets a bit too much I struggle to forgive. Old memories, programs and triggers rear their ugly heads and take control of my thoughts and actions. It's not healthy which is why I needed to write this post and get it off my chest. I feel much better already.
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
Thank you - it was a difficult time. Yes I find the same thing - if I talk about it enough it loses some of it's sting - I'm glad you're feeling better :)