Has it ever happened to you not to be content with yourself, to have the impression that any action you are trying to do is hit by a certain routine, a pattern that has led to mistakes so far but you can not change it? It has happened to me and I struggle as far as possible to get rid of this defect of my personality.
If you do not understand what I mean, let me give you a concrete example: You know someone and you behave in a certain way. The result is not quite happy, whether it was someone of the opposite sex or a man who could have opened doors for you. You overcome social failure, but the next time you get the same opportunity you behave exactly the same, maybe you think who likes you, likes you the way you are. And you get the same unfortunate result.
Stagnation
If you've come to reading a personal development blog, it's clear that you're tired of complaining about where you are, and that you want to do something to get better, reach the next level or get an alpha personality , as the idea is called in the communities in question.
And I was still talking about stagnation, it's the result of the social programming you've been subjected to. Because of the principles that have been imposed on you and which you have not voluntarily adopted. It may be difficult for you to believe, but these principles you respect because you have been educated can pull you down long enough if you do not belong and you do not understand them because there is no clear application in your mind following experiences.
The experiment
What I'm going to propose is an experiment inspired by the Seinfeld series, in which George Costanza does exactly the opposite of what the instinct dictates, and the results are amazing. Of course it's a serial and no one guarantees that it's gonna work, but there's not much to lose. Think of it, if you follow your instincts, you will probably not get anything in addition to before.
The idea: I said it above. Try to do exactly the opposite of what's in your head. A day or two, you can even make it a living principle. I tried and liked what went out, at least in terms of relations with the opposite sex.
Might be interesting to see how this turns out for you. I once read a book called the Dice Man. He made all his decisions based on the roll of a dice and went along with it regardless of how he felt about it.
Luke Rhinehart had deviant, bizarre ideas, and I do not recommend anyone to live their life after the dice theory.
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