love is one of the best things. i hope u find it. if you do, i hope you do not register your relationship with the state. in a world where, as you say, people hardly commit to anything, i hope you see the danger of promising to stay with someone forever, then signing a legal document to that effect. i realize calling HIM your husband is exciting, but it is a high cost for such a small distinction. thank you for commenting on this subject, it is an important one, and we need lots of ideas, but you are a female. you don't understand. wealth, for men, is equivalent to being attractive to a woman, a symbol of who we are. we think about it. we obsess about it, the same way you obsess over your hair, body, and make up. i have seen friends fall in love only to have their emotional and financial security taken, along with their children. this fate is not inevitable, in america you get a 50/50 shot. to unmarried american males reading this thread: even odds you're going to loose more than half of what you've built if you marry wrong. before you sign that contract, make sure you understand the cost.
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you missed the point. i figured u would. i'll state it again in simpler terms. psychologically, female beauty, however u define it, is equal to male financial security. would you still want to get married if divorce made you ugly? maybe, but you'd also be less likely to do it.
guys: divorce is likely to ruin you financially. that will make you less attractive to members of the opposite sex. be careful.
Haha, thanks for the "simple terms" and your warning. I think we are living on two different planets :-)) But that's OK. Take care.
My whole thing is - I'd rather spend thousands of dollars on a house downpayment with my girlfriend than get married... and she's cool with it :D
It's crazy though, everyone I know my age has crazy student loan debt, so spending money on a wedding really doesn't make sense for any of them haha