Hello, Steemit Friends
You can lead yourself to a dream life.
If you take a look at your life do you like what you see?
Maybe you are at that point in life where you feel you are completely off track. You may be overwhelmed, tired with life, disgusted, Indecisive and you feel you need a new start at life.
Don’t fret, we all face this at some point .
We have all been there and some of us choose to rise above our circumstances no matter how bad the situation seemed then. While there is no magic formula to live your dream life, here are a few tips that have helped me in the past to get my mojo back.
Be Honest With Yourself
It’s scary to admit that you are in a bad place but this is the first step towards rising above your circumstances. Look critically at your situation and if you need help admit it to yourself. Look out for people who can assist you to be better. Be real with what you want to do with your life and the dreams you hope to achieve. No matter how crazy the dream might seem it exists in your mind and heart to be achieved.
Being honest with yourself and what you want provides you with unparalleled direction and ability. it allows you to use
the most powerful tool that is misused today: the ability to say no. next time you are faced with a bright opportunity you will ask yourself if that is what you really want if it is not no matter how much other people encourage you to take it you will be able to move on.
Seek Information That Can Help You Achieve Your Dream
You don’t have to guess on how you can achieve your dream. In today’s information age you can easily get information from the internet on what it would take for your dream to be a reality. Chances are there are people who have achieved the same dream and mapped the way for you.
If you can find someone to mentor you the better, but even if you don’t, research it online you will find the answers.
Challenge Adversity
For years I didn't know what I wants to do in life but I always convinced myself that I would never be successful in in something. Day in, day out I arrived at my work-place and miserably counted the hours until evening wishing for something different.
Most of us are like that convincing ourselves that it’s too hard to do what we dream of so we choose a life of mediocrity. However, none of us deserves such a life and most of what we fear is only on our minds. Make a plan and implement it to reach your goal. You will find that it will be much easier to go after your dream especially if you are passionate about it. You only got one life to live so go on and live it to the fullest. Remember all dreams are achieved outside the comfort zone.
Ignore The Negatives
In your journey to be an achiever, you will meet people who will discourage you, you will be in doubt, fear and sometimes you will feel like you are aiming too high. If you listen to these negatives you might give up.
When I compared myself to others and felt that I was not making progress, this would discourage me often and I would not give my passion my alone day I shared this with a friend, The advance I got was; I should always remember that I might not be where I want to be but I am definitely not where I was when I started.
Celebrate the small goals and focus on positivity in your journey. If you fail don’t quit, we know so many successful people who never made it the first time. Keep going and surround yourself with positive people.
Define The Terms Of The Game
The definition of success is not static. For some, success is more power, money or influence but each one of us has their worldview of success. For instance as a daughter of my being successful is being there for my parents. I want to. E there for my family . I am passionate about my family and this passion makes me jump from my bed each morning.
In the same manner success to you might not be a grand idea but if you find your path in life and follow it, that’s success in itself. Do not be intimidated when the world judges you because you gave up money, power or other things that others view as symbols of success to follow your path. Remember it’s your life, set the terms of the game.
Focus On Good Habits
Sometimes what steals our happiness are not the people around us or lack of resources but bad habits. If you have ever had a bad habit you know it can be hard to shake one off. However, if you want to be successful you will need to get rid of bad habits.
Work on forming a good habit and surround yourself with people who will motivate you to stick to the good habits. Practice makes perfect so keep practicing the good habits and within no time they will be routine.
It's a long journey on this life of ours. As long as we don't stop and give up, there's always room to grow and achieve something. Don't stop dreaming my fellow Steemian !!! Aim for the moon!!.
I hope you enjoy my post as always !!
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Much Love, Suzana
I think that your words made me realize, that now it's not the time to make excuses and I really have to start doing sth to change my life around in the way I want. I will save your post just to encourage myself that I can do it. The part about surrounding myself with people who will encourage me I can say I managed to do it already. But everything else I have to put in my head. Old habbits are really hard to give up, but I'll try to do my best to accieve my goals. Thank you for all your words. Really loved reading them!
This whole article needs to be turned into a paid talk.
Thanks for sharing real life strategies that helped you get back your mojo.
I liked the very first strategy here,it is always hard to admit to ourselves!
Thank you so much for your kind words !!! It just made my day :)
Excellent Post, @suerisue. Here's an excellent quote for you!!
“When you start loving yourself and respecting your time and energy, things will change. Get to know your worth, and your value will go up.” ― Germany Kentgood post Maybe you are at that point in life where you feel you are completely off track. You may be overwhelmed, tired with life, disgusted, Indecisive and you feel you need a new start at life. Nice
Thank you. This is excellent advice. I especially close to the theme that it is not necessary to set yourself up for a bad outcome. I often saw that in me. But now I try to think only positively. Now I am also looking for myself. And every night before you go to sleep, I mentally talking to myself. Set goals for the next day. Am getting results. And I repeat:" I will succeed!" A big way always starts with believing in yourself. Believe in yourself, even if one doesn't believe in you.
YoU aRe gOoD yoUr pOsT iS vErY gOod 😆
Life gets once. She should walk with her together.
I really enjoyed to read your post! Thank you!
And dont spend to much time on the internet, except on steemit of course !!!!!
Positive info there! Great points!
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I like the positivity on this post!
Yes take control of your own life, and don't let the path lead you, choose your own route.
Well spoken
If we all were positive this world would be pretty awesome dont you think ?
It would help a lot I guess!
(I think the world is already quite awesome at this moment, we just shouldnt mess it up so much haha)
yes we all have experienced some of the worst situations in life, but belief and hard work can turn it into a better situation. thank you for motivating us @suerisue
Great post, very uplifting and inspiring.
Excellent write up! Thanks so much for giving Steemit a fair shake on.
One I would like to add is -
Have faith in yourself!
Deep down we all know the truth. We know what we want to do in order to feel at peace.
Do it, trust yourself!
All men dream: but not equally
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Making a habit to read all steem posts before I hit bed. I suppose a good habit since there's so much info flowing here.
Very motivating post!
You are right especially when you talk about negativities, people will always be jealous of others successes.
I think a real winner takes example from successful people instead
Your dad needs to clip you over the ear for dangling the young and single carrot. At least it seems to have paid.
Great article! I have finally started to see myself living my dream life! It has taken years to get here, but I took on board the above mentioned pioints and implemented them into my everyday life, they really do work! I would add another gem that has helped me...Take steps towards your goal everyday, even if they are small. Ask yourself ~will doing this take me one step closer to my dream? ~ If the answer is yes, you are progressing!
Enjoyed reading your post. Nice one, thanks for sharing;)
Nice work. You're a smart cookie ;b
Ya turn that negative off for sure!
This is good poat thaks @suerisue
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Love the message! Thanks for the inspiration❤️
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But when I see I should get the opportunity but someone come and take that which she/he never deserve . If we don't get any chance how could we show what we got.
Thanks seun
Great job, you inspired me to start with practicing good habits and to move on down of your list! Thanks a lot, great job. Wait for your next post.
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I identified with your post. Undoubtedly, success is always evolving, a successful person is always climbing levels to observe the world more broadly. Read what you write is interesting and motivating way you think about many things connected with mine, a hug, a pleasure read you.
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I started to search to do some job on line abaute 2 years a go just by an exident while i was
talking to my wife abaute clicking sites :)
I started to do trading on on line platforms like iq option and others..
I had sukcess at that time just for copiing someone that i find on you tube at that time .(martingeiling trades)
In one word gabling till i get something :( jenualy i didnt make nothing
Bazicly this wasnt for me if i dont spend enough time on computer ,do i get to some gud trades ower time and i learn to hold to my sence and when i was like that in that state i was ok.
Onestly i need to work full time to suport my family an trading is not geting me enywhere.
I find some sites and platforms to inwest but my wife was all the time agains it .
Make some smal investments on a side and it hapends that abaute btc in that time all was scam(do price was 270 to 38 0) at that specific time.
I hade an idea to by some coins and to do some gambling and some investing to just make something more not to spend it onestly.it didnt hapend so i stop and i started to work full and part time just to colect more money for my new family and baby (the most beutiful baby in the world):)
in that time iand it is stil the same baby is on the first place so i cant get enough money on the side to start sometning do i hawe nouse for something always.and since then btc went weri far.So i think i mist it .Newer mind il find new thing
Ill try ewerithing for my family and ill keap it ap to date abaute it so help me god or what ewer dude is out there :)
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This is my wife she is wery nice person :)