Hey guys,
I'm not married yet but some day I hope I will. We were talking the other day with some guys and the question of availability came up. In the modern world, social media has replaced real time conversations. Texting is a norm and really getting to hear a voice or a tone is not really a mandatory requirement to get your message across.
I believe that if you're in a committed relationship with someone, you will find some time in your day to be in touch with them. It doesn't have to be for hours, for as long as communication is upheld. That you are really interested in the welfare of your significant other.
No matter how busy your schedule is, if you go a day or two without talking to your partner, you miss them because you are fond of them. That's my version, it could be different for some. Which is why I wouldn't say I'm in love with anyone who for some reason doesn't treat me as a priority and the same goes for me.
Neglecting your lover is a form of abuse. It shows that you do not respect them enough to listen or attend to their needs. By needs, I really don't mean physical, material or financial, I mean the need to be heard, to be assured that someone has got your back. Because life can be challenging or smooth, in both scenarios, you need someone to share those experiences with.
Let me know what you guys think in the comment section below.
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It is a form of abuse, the person is emotonally tortured, imagine you are thinkin what have I done to be ignored? Or they have found someone else?
or they seem not to be interested
This is a very unfair. In fact some people do it without knowing calling it I am busy. I find that the relationships that have succeeded for me, we do spend time together. We motivate each other and plan.
it sure is unfair.
Well of course it's a commitment so both have to make an effort to see each other. That's not always the case though. Some times some unavoidable circumstances will get in the way but as long as there's communication & understanding everything should be OK
spot on
I think if someone is a priority to you, you will make time. Neglect ni za watu hawako serious or people playing games.
have you heard of Demi's song games?
Relationship needs constant communication
coming from a married man, that's true.
Right there