I remember a very similar incident when I wa probably the same age, I dont remember if I said shut up or some other snarky comment but I got into a similar amount of trouble
I do think as with most things in life compromise and common sense comes into play as were adults, we should listen o others peoples ideas but just used them to guide us in making our own decision, I still hate to this day being dictated to but I can listen to advice just I may not always follow it
Precisely!!! :)