You are here. Your heart feels empty, and life feels confusing. Nothing feels okay, but the reality is that you have to be okay. But how?
The answer is always with time, you will heal. What you do with that time however can either be productive or destructive.
1.)Lean on Friends: Your friends are your world that will make sense right now. Even if you have not seen them in a long time, you now have the time to reignite your friendships. It doesn't matter who or where your friends are, whether they are near, or people you have met on Steemit, they will be there for you 100%. Tell them exactly what you need. That you don't feel like going anywhere so you need extra motivation, tell them you need someone to talk to or make silly jokes with. These are your people and they will know how to make the time pass while you come to terms with your loss.
2.)Learn from the Relationship: Your relationship ended for a reason, and it was either a good thing or a bad thing. Regardless you need to make mental notes on what it is you learned and what you want to change about yourself or watch out for in the future. You might realize that you need to be more considerate and thoughtful, or you need to pay more attention to red flags that you know you ignored for too long. Don't make this a time where you learn nothing. Make this a time where you learn everything you can to be a better person.
3.)Don't Become Heartless: It is very easy after the loss of a relationship to become lost in never wanting to be hurt again, never wanting to feel vulnerable. But if this is the way you think, you are never really going to move on. You will continue to be in the same place as before. And that is not what life is all about. Always love hard, and be strong. Because you never know who is passing you by when you are determined not to love again.
Hello @teggit!
I noticed you have posted many times since you began your journey on Steemit. That is great! We love active partipants.
I do want to point out that the Introduceyourself tag is meant to be used once only to introduce yourself to the Steemit community. You have now posted 5 times using the introduceyourself tag. Please see this link for more information Tag Spam?
Please take this into consideration and help build a great platform!
Thank you
Dear @teggit, thanks for your beautiful post, in order to support you i showed your picture in my blog. Please feel free to check the link below and if you like my effort then kindly donot forgot to upvote and follow me too. ;). If you donot like your picture there then just message me in that post, i will remove it.
https://steemit.com/life/@sultanmr/best-new-steemers-introductory-posts---page-11-1523535641-0825315
You should always ask before using anyones content including my own @sultanmr as that is infringing on my personal photos, and others original work.
Im really very sorry to hear you. That picture is the same your shared publicaly and linked to your profile as well. Anyway, i have removed it. I hope you will dont mind.
sorry again and wish you best of luck in steem.
cheers
I just suggest in the future that you ask if you can feature people's pictures and work first, otherwise that is copyright. This can get you into potential trouble on here even though I understand what you are doing. Please use this in your future endeavours.
This is superb! Very important points, specially, 1st point. I agree, your friends are always with you whenever you need them.👍 keep it up @teggit.
Thanks girl!