Live Young and get spoiled whenever you want in your lifespan.
Its never too late to do ANYthing in life.
Age is just number.
All of us hear such quotes and saying and they sound well when we have crossed twenties, but to be frank you would agree more with me that TWENTIES ARE THE BEST TIME TO GET SPOILED!
To start with :
(starting from left : @Thatindianlady in black, and 3 of my twenty somethings chics)
Let me give you my reasons :
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Financial Independence in twenties
🧚♂️Financial Independence in twenties is very high. Reason being most of us are unmarried and do not have a spouse or child waiting at home, because thats where budget comes into picture. Most of the twenty somethings are living on their own and do take their own financial decisions.
Although 20-something youngsters also have a budget at times but the constraints are minimal and there is huge portion that can be spend at Fun & Leisure without having a second thought.
What about me?
Honestly a good portion of my monthly earnings goes out in that FUN department of my life these days. Sometimes i do think i should spend less, but there is always a sound coming from inside 'THIS IS THE TIME GIRL, GO FOR IT, YOU CONTROL EVERYTHING '.
I save too, and i spend too. But thinking from future perspectives, i would surely drop my spendings because i will be having a spouse, children and my own family to run. Financially there would be some degree of dependency. And life is full of unwelcomed financial troubles, which might not bother you at all in twenties.
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LEVEL OF CURIOSITY TO TRY EVERYTHING
🧟♂️This ia factor that plays the most important role i must say.
There is so much new that the world throws at you in this particular age bandwidth. Most of the times, we would not even know if this is our cup of tea or not, but still we would want to try it all.
The CURIOSITY FACTOR would make you want to try everything that you have ever crossed your path.
Some excpetional cases must be alive. No denial. 🤪
What about me?
I am more of a YES KINDA GIRL. Like yes i want to try everything that comes my way but there are filters in between that can save me from possible poisoning.
A good quote to explain :
(Something i have saved in my phone) hehe🤗
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Discovering your typaaaaa things and people
🤩I used the word discovering because you actually discover all those things, activities, hobbies and people who will stay with for kost of your lifespan.
When you discover anything about your likings or dislikings in 20s, you would be loving yourself for every bit because your confidence towards life and yourself rises real high.
Forgiving self is easier and grudges & guilts are less painful in comparison to elder versions of our self.
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Energy levels are Sky touching
💖Our health is better(for most of us). We get sick, we recover quite smoothly.
Cancelling plans or saying 'NO' to opportunities because of health constraints occur less.
Are you in your twenties?
Agree more with me?
Or may be you have crossed your twenties?
Then agree even more?
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Till next blog, HAPPY STEEMING
ohhhh yeaaaaaaaHhh
I am scared darling, i am scared. I wonder how stunningly more beautiful you will become when you leave the 20s. Wow! Love that outfit. Totally relate to your post. You only live once. Perspectives really do change when people marry.
yaaaaasss, i will grow older and become lazy after i get married, i think i will be putting less efforts on my looks haha. 👱♀️😂
thanks for all the good words you say everyday :):) ola
Hahahaha Charu, don't become lazy with your looks. Keep it shining so he can always see the person he fell in love with over and over again. You know confidence comes with how one carries oneself. I trust you though, your beauty is natural, so is your smiles, so i know you don't have to do too much before they sparkle. Your beauty will surely increase woth your age Charu...can't wait to see your 27-40 looks haha
i will try keeping my looks up with all the responsibilities at home and in office makigg sure i find sometime formyself :)
hahahahah me too
Yes my dear, in the midst of the responsibilities, try and keep it up. Ladies/women are superhumans. They are so amazing. Don't worry, he will help out once in a while so you wouldn't feel the responsibilities too much.
I wish I'd have had the wisdom to use more of my freedom in my twenties, but I spent my twenties raising children!
Of course now I"m in my mid 40's and I feel like I have even MORE freedom (for myself) because all I ever wanted to do was have kids and all that... and now I've done that. I feel like I'm still young and much wiser than I was in my twenties, so I really think there is something to be said for all stages of life.
I hope you enjoy the hell out of your 20's and have LOTS of fun! And then find the amazingness of your 30's and then your 40's! I think there is something amazing about each stage of life. Now I'm watching my own kids enjoy their twenties and it really seems like they are having awesome times, too!
You and your friends are gorgeous and happy. Keep on enjoying life!
what a beautiful comment you put here @byn :)
You sound just like my elder sister, she got married at 21, also because she wanted to marry and have kids :).
True indeed, all stages of life are once in lifetime and beautiful :)
Yeah sure @thatindianlady, there are some cups best left on the table that you sit ))
Looking awesome in black dress
Nice thoughts
So, when are we going to have our own fun love?
Oh yes, 20s is like the perfect age to have fun , experiment with life to the fullest. As time passes by, TIME itself might not let us have that kinda fun that we are used to in our 20s.
so true :)
Fantastic topic to be focussing on! I am in my twenties too, but not as energetic as you :) It is great to be inquisitive and discover new things in life. Keep exploring and following your passions. We have only one life!
yes friend :)