Pleasing others over yourself - You will live your life sacrificing your happiness to give others something they may not even want.
Being too proud to get help - There is no shame in getting help, you’ve gotten it all your life. Don’t bet everything you have on you figuring it out if you can also bet on having someone by your side to help. You do not have to do this alone.
Underdelivering on your commitments - Cheat on your own word and you will build a foundation of distrust with yourself that will only grow stronger with time.
Aimlessly living - You aren’t going to stumble upon happiness, fulfillment and value by just diddle-daddeling around. I know you hope you will, but that isn’t how life works.
Consuming too much - Not only food but also entertainment, reading or relaxation will be bad if overdone. If you are avoiding life or things that matter to consume, then you put yourself on the road to ruin.
Not being happy - You sacrifice your happiness now so that you can do a job that will get you the means to be happy later… Seems a bit backwards doesn’t it?
Being dishonest with yourself - You like what you like, love what you love and have the desires you have. There is no reason to lie about them because it isn’t going to make it go away.
Relying on the future - The time you spend right now is gone forever. Every moment only comes by once in a lifetime. If you are unhappy now, the future will not make the moments you wasted go away.
Pretending to be someone else - Being fake leads to fake friends, a fake job, and a leading a life not designed for you.
Being too afraid - I know being scared sucks. But what sucks even more is looking back thinking “Had I only been brave when…”
Ignoring the problems - At first it’s something small, but if you do not take care of it now it will only grow. It won’t change on its own.
Inaction - “If you do what you’ve always done, you get what you’ve always gotten.” - Tony Robbins
Complaining about life - This is nothing more than brushing off responsibility onto someone or something else. It’s still your life. You are responsible for what you have and do not have; no one else.Taking things too seriously - Life can be a horror show or an amusing ride, depending on how you look at it. You can scream in terror or scream in joy at the exact same things. The choice is yours.
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