^I instantly thought of this picture when I read your piece. It’s awesome that you overcame those obstacles and have become the confident and successful person that you are today.
I grew up in an environment that was rife with toxic attitudes and naysayer-galore, so I understand exactly what you're talking about. My self-esteem suffered for years because of it, and it took a LOT of self-development to clear out the negative self-talk that held me back for so long. A big part of that involved distancing and/or eliminating people (including family members) from my circle who added no value and who were negative and fear-based in their approach to life, and replacing them with positive and confident individuals who were striving to better themselves. That made all the difference and helped me to become more proactive and goal-driven as an individual.
I owe a debt of gratitude to Jim Rohn, especially, as he was a major source of inspiration to me. One of the greatest things he said that always stuck with me is this:
"Do not become a victim of yourself. Beware of the thief on the street that's after your purse but also beware of the thief in your mind that's after your promise."
Good one, and me too. I haven't spoken to my father, for example, in 28 years.
I am also a Jim Rohn fan and that is a great quote!
Ha! I had a feeling you were a Jim Rohn fan! :-D