Haha! Yup! The phrase I want written on my tombstone is : "Life is a game of risk management and damage control". I think the key is to have the STAMINA and FAITH to get up when you fall down, with the assumption that we can use the "good" things that happen to us to PROPEL us FURTHER FORWARD than the bad things. In other words, HARNESS the power of the "positive" to MOVE THROUGH the "negative" with the LEAST amount of damage. Just my thoughts on this issue which I think A LOT about...