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RE: Where have all the good looking guys gone, none in my town lol

in #life7 years ago

I understand you want your daughter to be happy with a nice man. But there is a catch.

If he is drop dead gorgeous EVERYONE will be after him. Your daughter will constantly be competing against all the other women, some of whom have their morals around their ankles. She will have no peace of mind and heartbreak is only a text message away.

What she / you want is some eye candy. Fair enough. We all like someone nice to look at.

But what she NEEDS is a lonely man. Someone who is not butt ugly, stable, nice, but is just not 'edgy' enough for women to like. He's the quiet one, sort of shy, sitting in the corner.

If your daughter gives him the time of day (and she will have to approach him, he will never approach her) and treats him well - he will be totally faithful and dedicated to making her happy. He will grow under her care and become more of the man she needs than she could ever have imagined.

And, she might find, just quietly, that hidden beneath that shy exterior is a hot body just waiting for a little attention. She will have all the eye candy she wants - in private, and none of the heartache of everyone trying to steal her man.

Look for a computer geek. Look for an endurance athlete. They don't look like much at first, but when you get to know them.... that's a different story.

As a card carrying HOT guy myself (don't laugh! It's my fantasy and I can dream all I want!) the thing that will get your daughter noticed - is being fit, healthy, happy and outgoing.

That fitness radiates a positive vibe that is irresistible. And everyone loves being around happy people.

Stand out in the pub - everyone there is getting drunk to make everyone else look better. To the hot guy your daughter is just another one in the crowd.

Tell her to be sober - stand out - be different. That way if a hot guy does stray into her local, she won't miss the chance to grab him.

But the way ALL of the guys on internet dating are married or in a relationship. Whereas in the pub on 80% - 90% are.

Dating is not a fun game in the 21st century, and I'm really glad I don't have to do it any more.

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That's what I have told her but she is young and daft, I want her to find a decent lad, one who looks at her and only her and one that treats her right, I will be happy then :)