Things You Should Take Control Of, In Your Life.

in #life6 years ago (edited)

They are different things that can make a difference in your life.
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Some of these things can change everything about you on it's own, if only we are committed to work and improve on them all, we become a transformed and powerful human being.

It's only when we are committed to change and improve, then we can.

Taking control of things, and not things taking control of you is one of the way you can make a massive different in your life. That is only if we decide and commit to them.

Seven Things You Should Take Control Of In Your Life.

1. Our Thoughts and beliefs.
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Most times, how we see the world is how we live in the world.
If you belief that people are mostly good, you will see mostly good people. And if you think about all the negative things around and the bad people in the world, that is what we will attract.
The meaning you give to everything in your life becomes your life.
If you believe in miracles, you attract one.
If you believe your best is yet to come, then your best is on it's way.

It doesn't take a lot of common sense to understand that positive people live better and happier lives, than negative people.

So sharpen your mind, practice positive affirmation, work on yourself everyday.

You are in control of your thoughts and beliefs, and adjusting this, can change everything.

2. Your Effort.
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Do you know your efforts, equals your results.
The law of attraction is only going to work if you do.
This does not mean it needs to be a struggle.
Efforts can be effort-less, it can. and should be doing something you love.
** It needs not be a struggle, but you must put in the work if you want the results.**
You are always in control of the amount of effort you put in, the amount and quality you put in to your business, career and yourself, so you are always in control of your results.

3. Showing kindness to others.
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Kindness and compassion shouldn't require effort.
It's just part of your real nature and do you know when you give, the universe always return with interest.

When you are kind to others, more people are kind to you.
Kidness, compassion and giving to others not only lifts them, it lifts you too.
Theirs no better feelings than knowing that you made a difference in the life of another human, just as @prettyjules158 do.
You don't know who is hurting.
One simple kind interaction could change someone's life. It could save someone's life.
You never know what your words means to another person, or when they might need it.
So be kind and always remind those close to you that they matters.
Kind people are always the most loved.
You want more love, give more love.
You want more friends be a better friend.
You want more kindness, be a kind person.

Regardless of what others do or don't, be kind and watch those around you change.

To be continued.

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And they are the little things we usually put off..thanks @uche-nna

Thanks for stopping by most especially to read.
I do appreciate alot @mcsamm.

Nice one dear, thanks for the mention.

Smiles...
Thanks for reading..

Wow this is beautiful. Thanks for sharing boss

Kindness and compassion shouldn't require effort.
It's just part of your real nature and do you know when you give, the universe always return with interest.

Caught that

Thanks for reading dear.

Sometimes our thoughts ends up taking control of us as a result of the negativity we flood it with, however the moment we learn how to control and guide it towards positivity, that becomes a step towards progression.

@uche-nna you are becoming a philosoper buddy 😁😁😁 keep up the good work

hahahahaha..
I bet.
Thanks for reading, sharing your view and sticking by.
Would visit soon, bear with me please.

of course no wahala buddy 😁😁😁

The brother should do whatever he wants, whether it is for work or for any good work. No other work outside of work. Without hard work, people can not improve in life. Thanks for sharing with us @uche-nna.

Yeah, you right.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Hello Brother @uche-nna. Great article brother.I think making efforts is the key.we must focus and channel all our efforts to get the results we want.everybody should try to be change their lifestyle to be success Life is about being able to share, socialize and help each other, that's how we can be great people.Its good to pray always for a God fearing and loving heart. True, we get by what we give. what we do for others always has a way of coming back to us. Brother @uche-nna. it's impressive post.You always think better.

Thanks for always sticking by @lanamo, and sharing your point too. I preciate.

Kidness, compassion and giving to others not only lifts them, it lifts you too.

This has been true in my own life. Thanks for the boost boss.

Thanks for reading.

Our life is not placed on an autopilot mechanism. The outcome of our life is totally our responsibility, take charge and make right steps.

Nice post @uche-nna

Yeah, thanks for stopping by and sharing your view.
I do preciate.

Yes you are right @uche-nna
If we change our toughts and think start thinking positively we can change the world.

Yeah we cam change the world.
Thanks for reading.

you are very right @uche-nna i wish lot of people can learn from this post because the greed in the world is getting out of hand, most especially this days please lets endeavour to be our brother's keepers so that we all can make the world a better place.

Yeah, that should be one of our primary purpose in life.
Thanks for stopping by.

Do you know your efforts, equals your results.

I wouldn't agree less. I'll just say karma works for all. success is not spiritual but based on your hardwork and effort.

Yeah, thanks for sharing your view.

If one decide to change his thinking he has taking the first step of success the next is to believe in himself, have faith in himself and do all he have to do with a heart full of gratitude. Thanks for the great post

Thanks for sharing your own view and for reading.

The first point is my take home for today been sunday, truly, our thoughts defines our life, see a man that thinketh in an evil way, good things will be far from him.
Its good to pray always for a God fearing and loving heart.

Yes it is really good and important.

That is so, we must focus and channel all our efforts to get the results we want. Life is about being able to share, socialize and help each other, that's how we can be great people. The first aspect that you mentioned, I have been able to witness, the truth is that when your mentality is focused on something, the vibes are attracted and at some point that which you want may come into your life sooner or later!

wow!!!
Thanks for sharing and reading too. I appreciate alot.

I love the part that emphasised on been what you want to see in life.....more kind if you want exprience kindness, love more if you need more friends.....the whole write up is uplifting, i must confess...thanks

Thanks for reading.
Am glad I was able to pass a message.

Nice thinking. Great your mind. I appreciate you dear @uche-nna.

Sir @uche-nna it's impressive post.You always think better.

You have a minor grammatical mistake in the following sentence:

**Some of these things can change everything about you on it's own, if only we are committed to work and improve on them all, we become a transformed and powerful human being.
It should be its own instead of it's own.

Osheyyyy baddest

When you stop@ depending on someone else's approval,
...... . You are taking back your @personal autonomy .

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everybody should try to be change their lifestyle to be success

Great article brother.
I think making efforts is the key.
Efforts can help you achieve what is possible.
But the best is to show kindness to those who can't benefit you in return.

True, we get by what we give. what we do for others always has a way of coming back to us

Amazing points. Life is really a function of our perspective. What we get is a function of how we see.

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