RE: How do you cope?

I've come to realize that people react differently to pain.
Personally things really don't get to me so much, I remember when I lost my grandpa, I was sad for sometime, then I wrote about him in my school journal then, that's basically how I deal with every pain, I write exactly how I feel and somehow it slowly goes away.
But on the other hand, 12years after my grandpa kicked the bucket, my brother still cries whenever we go to the village and Papa is no more.

So people deal with pain differently. Writing works for me.