Our perception is our reality

Yes, our perception is our reality, it's sometime difficult to understand this meaning, but we just we create our reality using our thoughts. I start understood this meaning of life about three years ago when I was broken, in this time I felt empty and disappointed. Everything went wrong for me. I started looking infomation about my feelings and I found some very interesting infomation about our reality. They says what we just we create our lives. Its was a website about humans psihology. I was shockted little bit about this meanings.

Then I began to look back at my life and my thoughts. And I saw what my thoughts was been were directed to the negative side. After this clarification, I really got better at that moment in my life. So I desided take control my thoughts. I was shokted about months after using these rules. Now in my life good and pleasant things always appear nice people and good relationships and I really understand that all this I myself pritenul in my life.

I agree with you to a certain point. It is true: mind over matter. But reality is a objective thing and when we talk about it we often say "my reality vs your reality" and what we mean by that is "my perception vs your perception" but what lies within those words is just "my distortion of the reality vs your distortion of the reality". Reality is objective, yes. But I think the thing that you have figured out is not, that you changed YOUR reality by simply having another view on it, but rather that you changed reality ITSELF by having another view on it. If it just would've been "your" reality you've changed, you would't notice any difference, because reality is a structure that is created by every living being. So if you have changed your behaviour and how you see the things around you, most certainly other people will see you as well with different eyes and therefore you changed "their" reality or reality itself as well! Just my humble thoughts. Keep going brother. Find your way! Love from Berlin.