I couldn't pretend to advise you to do this or that, and am confident you can negotiate the hazards you are faced with.
It is good that despite what must be a heart-wrenching situation, you yet hold beneficial interest in your heart. Clearly, your heart is big enough for all the turmoil going on in it.
Could I support more folks like you, I would. There aren't many with such dedication to justice and compassion, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Thank you.