Sometime in life, we all want to start all over, to erase everything and build a cleaner, saner structure on the dust of our past.
We usually don't do it because of all the people, the memories, the connections that these structures have with our past.
There is a solution tho, changing everything.
Change every single thing that you think could be better, saner; make the people or at least the connections better, take the good side of your memories, get a positive learning from your mistakes and bad memories.
Forgive to people, try to get you forgiven by people, build a new situation, new connections, new people, new habits.
We often hear that we build our lives, this isn't true; we invite others to build our life. Without others we only have plans on what we want our life to be !
Bond yourself with the life of the world and let it build your own life !
People don't like to work on their life, they are afraid or it just doesn't seem useful for them. But working on our life isn't an adventure, it's just work !
Yeah wanted to quote Rick and Morty - Pickle Rick's episode there ^-^
Take care of yourself !
Sources:
Title of the article extracted from the poem of Julie Hebert: https://www.wow4u.com/giveup/
Image Source: https://quotefancy.com/quote/552226/Nido-R-Qubein-Change-brings-opportunity
This is just a little article about a subject that concerns me a lot these days, I'm preparing a much bigger article for the next days !
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Well put. Changing your outlook, the way you think about certain situations is a hard, but necessary step. Forgiveness of others and self is absolutely essential to any step toward change.... also the hardest step for a lot of folks.