If there is something curious that our brain does every night without being asked, it is an essential mechanism to ignore information. Thanks to the glymphatic system eliminates toxins that could cause neurodegenerative problems. At the same time, while we sleep, the brain executes a subtle "blur" of unnecessary information , integrating and classifying what it deems relevant.
The brain , as you see, rises like a precise and almost perfect machinery that knows how to eliminate from its internal structures and processes everything that is not useful and that, therefore, could make it sick. However, when we open our eyes to the day and to our conscience, we are not always able to ignore what is not worthwhile.
If there is something that we should also keep in mind, it is that not only are many of the things that would be necessary to be ignored abroad . Sometimes, there is also that internal "noise", those obsessive thoughts, those fears, those doubts, anxiety ... Enemies of your own that you would need to recognize and deactivate.
Therefore, we invite you to reflect with us, to understand that sometimes, it can be very healthy to practice the simple act of leaving behind what does not enrich, that does not motivate, and that, on the contrary, puts walls in our personal growth.
How to learn to ignore what does not make me happy
Think about this question for a few moments: What makes you really happy? It may surprise you, but there are those who reach such an extreme in their personal lives that they no longer remember what happiness is . It is a very high risk.
Sometimes we do not dare, sometimes we fear to hurt other people, to disappoint them. However, it is worth bearing in mind that ignoring is also responding with intelligence. It is not giving relevance to those who do not deserve it, it is to deactivate that which hurts us.
There are epochs of our life in which, without knowing very well how, we lose that inner tranquility that characterized us before. It may be certain people, certain relationships. It may also be due to certain situations, to work pressures and even to self-demands .
We lose our bearings and even our own essences. Keeping this feeling for a long time can make us fall perfectly into a depressed state , into a defenselessness so serious that everything is beyond our control . Do not let that happen. Learn to ignore, to deactivate, to release loads to walk lighter on your personal path.
Remember everything that is meaningful to you
Do not lose your way. Do not lose your roots or what defines you, because everything that excites you, that takes a smile and accelerates your heart, is you. And happiness is what gives meaning to our life. So, if you do not feel it, if you do not perceive illusion in your day to day, you should think about these aspects.
Take off layers, one by one . You have spent a lot of time leading a life in which you do not identify, so, perform an internal exercise and discover what "skin" you should let go to return to your essence.
Remember your values. Not long ago you defined courage, courage, respect for oneself and for others. Say them out loud, make them clear.
Happiness are not things, they are elementary sensations inscribed in simple acts. If you do not appreciate them, it will be time to make decisions.
Practice the art of brave wisdom, the wisdom of knowing how to ignore
Is not easy. Ignoring what does not favor our personal growth sometimes requires cutting ties . And even more, reformulate even our attitudes . Hence, it also needs a small act of courage.
If you are a weak person you will seek revenge for your spite, if you are strong then you will be able to forgive. Now, if you are wise you will limit yourself to ignore what is not worthwhile to enjoy every day of your life.
We must be very clear that ignoring is not weak , that it does not mean that we do not deal with certain situations. Sometimes, the most successful thing is to ignore, stop giving relevance to something that should not have so much presence in your life.
Ignore the scorn. It is not you, it does not define you, it removes the relevance of your life to the person who directs it to you. Walk light.
Ignore who practices selfishness , who was never as you thought, who brings storms on sunny days. Ignore whoever takes your smile away . Take the goodbye, and let go to walk light.
Ignore the fears that put walls in your dreams , the prejudices and attitudes that prevent you from taking that train that will always happen for you. Disable the limiting thoughts and run lightly towards those projects that you undoubtedly deserve ...
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