Girls at the beginning of a relationship do not see male imperfections, and when they begin to manifest themselves in a man, they do not want to accept them. Why, why? The reaction of the girls is well known: scandals, reproaches, claims, accusations begin ...
You need to be able to immediately see the flaws.
There are no men who do not have negative qualities. Someone has more, someone less. The ideal man is our imagination and emotions in the candy-bouquet period, this is the fruit of girlish fantasies, this is a gaze through "rose-colored glasses" on a man.A man has flaws. He is not perfect. It was you who opted for this man. You were not blind and deaf when you decided to be with him? And the fact that his shortcomings do not quite suit us is already a problem that exists in our head. It is difficult to say so, especially to realize. But it is so. Because we don’t like them, we don’t understand them, and because of this, we ourselves also suffer. This fact must be accepted. There are no men who have only positive qualities.
A man does not change under female pressure.
A man changes himself, if he wants, but any internal changes contribute to this, they will not depend directly on women's desires, and even more so on his whims.A man is judged not by words, but by actions and deeds.
Otherwise, no fork will help remove the noodles from your ears. Normally, a man in a relationship behaves like this:If a problem arises, the man solves it without delay;
in case a man promised something - he does;
Man doesn't just disappear anywhere;
It will always help if you need help.
Nice post. I consider it as a good advice for future relationship. Btw are you a dating guru?
Thank you very much