Before we trace some of the household life of the Prophet shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam with his wives then we should know first who the ummahatul mukminintersebut. How is the marriage history of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam with them, so we have a little picture of the life of the household of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam.
Khadijah bint Khuwailid
The first wife of the Prophet shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam was Khadijah bint Khuwailid bin Asad. and the age of beliaushalahuahu 'alaihi wa sallam when married Khadija was twenty-five years old, while Khadijah was twenty-eight years old. Khadijah is the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who is closest to his Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). All the sons of the Prophet shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam were born from Khadijah's womb except Ibrohim. Khadijah is a rich, beautiful woman and has a high position in society, so many people of Quraish who want to marry her but his heart is captivated by the figure of a young man who has no property but has a noble character and high. He is Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Khadija had sacrificed her wealth and soul to defend the prophetic message. He is the woman who always calm the lover dikala drowned and agitated. He puffs up beautiful word pearls as an air conditioner in a difficult time, a tranquilizer in a hesitant moment, and burns his spirits when he is lethargic and disappointed. His beautiful words have been narrated and recorded by the narrators and writers, as the bride for wives and women who want to imitate the lover of human penghulu.
When the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to him "I worried about myself", Khadijah also respond to curhatan the lover by saying,
"Not so, rejoice, By Allah, Allah will forever never humiliate you. By Allah, you have connected the ropes, honest in saying, helping those who can not, you help the poor, glorifying the guests, and helping those who are helpless in disaster. "
Thus he comforted the husband who was then worried that something bad would happen to him. He motivates, praises, and shares the good news.
No wonder the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) loved him very much, always calling his name, his glory, and his merits, even though he was gone. to the extent that Ayesha said,
"I have never been jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam as my jealousy towards Khadija. I never saw him, but the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said his name. Sometimes the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) slaughtered a goat and sent it to Khadijah's companions. Sometimes I say to him, "As if in this world there is no woman for the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) except the Khadija", then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "He is such a woman and so and I used to have a son from him ... '"Ayesha was jealous of Khadija when Khadija had died.