lol, I've never been a real fan of the "IN" crowd, and it didn't matter if it was the holier than thou, or the party crowd. I've always felt like the odd man out, but I'd just rather be me than fit in a mold. I don't try to stick out, but don't try to fit in either. One thing I've learned is that normal and the status quo are boring and a waste of time.
Live life your way. It's better than what most people do, playing follow the leader or keep up with the Jones' their whole lives.