FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

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People don't believe in Friendship as they used to!

Yes a lot of them don’t anymore. Maybe, a few still do, because I DO. One of the backwardness of living with the idea that everything has a hidden benefit is this new age madness with people, If you care for them, whether too much or less, they begin to suspect you as having a secret agenda.

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We no longer believe people can be friends for real without them wanting anything more. Do you remember those your childhood or pre-school friends? Do you remember your teenage days or secondary school friends? YOU could laugh and play genuinely without any thoughts like "He wants something from me or she's doing it for my money".

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Yes, it's possible we become lovers as we move on as friends, and we can also be friends, good friends, and not turn out to be lovers. It is called friendship. He offers you a gift, and you refuse it not because you don't want it but because in your mind, you are saying, "he offered me a gift, let me mind myself and say no because I don't know what he wants in return".

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For years, we've killed ourselves with this lies of "Nothing goes for Nothing, there's always a price". YES, there is always a price and price is the Friendship he or she has seen in your Lives. Don't get into the emotional line too quickly. Don't rush the thinking of "I think he loves me" - Even if he or she does, live your life without assuming until he or she is bold enough to say it.

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I believe that in a relationship, you must be able to really help your lover to satisfy that person, as much as possible. Because if you are not really able or willing to make your partner happy, then your partner might just find someone else who is able to satisfy him or her. You might say, "But it's not real love if you're only with someone for money or sex." And you are wrong! Because if your partner is not being satisfied, then how much do you really love that person, when you fail to make that person happy, and almost seem to not really care about anything other than your own feelings? Do you love that person enough to make sure he or she is being satisfied in all of the ways possible, to the best of your ability?