Communication is undoubtedly one of the important part of our life and social interaction. It is not necessarily through speaking or writing to other person.Humans have evolved to be the social creatures,and the evolution manifests as understanding of our bodies respond in some situations and conversations.This body language is the form of non-verbal communication that is important as oral and written communication.This article attempts to provide simple interpretation of what certain body postures means.
MAINTAINING EYE CONTACT
It is common knowledge that maintaining eye contact while speaking is a sign of confidence. This course can be use for either positive or negative interaction.
Positive eye contact is just to show confidence,no ulterior motives attach.Negative eye contact on the other hand have ulterior motive attached.It is usually use to manipulate or deceive the other person.In some casing breaking eye contact is some cases also a sign that other person is lying.
OBSERVING THE MOVEMENT OF THE HEAD
While conversation the speed at which the person nodes his head when you are speaking indicates his patience.
Slow nodding indicates that the person is interested in what you are saying and want you to continue talking.Fast nodding indicates that a person has heard enough and wants you to finish speaking or give him or her a turn tho speak.
FIDDLING WITH CLOTHING
A person who is fiddling with his or her dress is giving the sign of nervousness.It usually has to do with having dressed poorly but not in all cases.
when it is due to being poorly dressed,the fiddling is usually accompanied by breaking eye contact.
FOLDED HANDS AND TAPPING FEET
Folded hands and tapping feet are usually a sign of withheld thoughts.It shows the desire to not open or share with the other person.It is not necessary about lying as it might be a situation on hurtfully not telling something.
Tapping on the other hand indicates the nervousness or impatience or both.
Transmission of information and feedback make up the cycle of communication. We all speak and listen through our body.If it is read correctly,it is as good verbal and written communication.People working in various fields need to learn and master the are for successful career.
WE should also learn how to interpret and understand body languages for the sake of personal lives.
Fights and arguments can be avoided if people are able understand each other body language.