I dare to love! - A Dialogue with the Beloved

in #love7 years ago

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I love you.
…but I don’t feel comfortable with myself…

That doesn’t change my Love at all.
Don’t say that. That makes me afraid…

There is nothing you need to change. You are welcome to be the way you are.
That feels way too intense!

What do you fear, my Love?
I’m afraid of your expectations

I have none, sweetheart.
…but I can’t fulfill them... I can’t give you something, that I don’t have myself…

Oh dear, you don’t have to work on yourself. There is nothing missing in you and nothing asked of you.
That’s overwhelming…I can’t handle that…

I know. It can sometimes feel scary. I share all your fears. I also fear to be not enough. That I can’t be for you, what you want me to be.
I don’t know how to trust that. I don’t want to be responsible and be absorbed by this Love

What do you fear to lose?
My personality! My individuality! My right to say NO and respect my borders!

Yes, I hear you… and again, I share these fears. Its scary to think that way.
These are very real dangers….
But why do you do it anyway??

I’m glad, that you finally ask…
I’m taking all these risks, because….
I dare to Love!

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@atmosblack Wonderful dialogue! Yes, no matter where we look in society Souls are somewhat brainwashed to believe that Love is always painful. The more we become prone to this statement and identify with it the less we can grasp the concept of Unconditional Love. "Why should somebody accept me exactly the way I am without having ulterior motives or vested interests?"
Eventually we'll find the way home! ;)

Yes, it´s past experiences of abuse and co-dependency that make it so hard to believe, that there really is a Love, that is way beyond this war of power... deeply surrendered to the vast and (for the mind) unknown nature of the eternal cosmic heart space ❤️

  • The human: "so, tell me, how do I find you, this great love of mine, I have been searching for you all my life"
  • The divine : you have been trying too hard, beloved. You need not do anything but to Allow. Allow me to come to you. Just breathe, relax, get out of your way, and I'll come.

That´s beautiful. Thanks for sharing! ❤️

Wow, I love this, so powerful. I come from a history of abuse and that voice inside my head is oh so present, you did a wonderful job of describing it. Thank you for your work!

Thank you so much! It´s wonderful to be able to touch such deep places in you! ❤️

Just like me and my wife.
Need not be afraid.
you can not run away
Because its lowe

WOow this is such a nice dialogue @atmosblack thank you for sharing tis with us!

Love,
@micch

Thank you so much! It´s my pleasure to follow you! ❤️

you are very much welcome, thank you so much for following my page such an honor :)

Sometimes it takes a little sacrifice to show it your love is really sincere. And his love is not so cheap it's very difficult to be natural if you have to make a little sacrifice to get love. Will you come back to sacrifice someone to get his love, you must know exactly what sacrifices you should make. Do not let your sacrifice will only bear fruitlessness or even myself.

I´m not sure, if I understand you correctly, but sacrifice is surely part of the "Love experience". The thing with sacrifice is though, that everything that you can sacrifice is not the real you anyway - it´s ego. What you really are - your true self - is not possible to sacrifice. So yes, sacrifice everything that is possible, because this is the way - not to get Love, but to be Love.
Blessings! ❤️

Yes!

Love is the sole purpose of our existence.
We live to replicate love dhown by life and the creator.

When love comes, I believe, it should be without restrictions, bold, daring and agile

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Wonderful post, lovely content. Nice to read. Easy to understand. Wait you next works @atmostblack

¡Maravilloso! Siempre he pensado que amar más que un sentimiento, es un a decisión, amar es atreverse y entregarse, pero amar también es permitirse ser uno mismo y aceptar al otro tal como es. Este dialogo me recuerda un poco a un libro excelente que leí, se llama Cartas para claudia de Jorge Bucay. En él, entre otras cosas hablan del amor y las expectativas, de lo que implica amor y hasta que punto es saludable ese amor, cuando se traspasan las fronteras y se pierde el amor propio. Te invito a leerlo.
Una vez más, lindas palabras.

Thanks to Google Translate, I now even know what you wrote here 😀
Thank you!